The past 2 years my parents have joined KJ's family for Thanksgiving in Kage's hometown of Paris, Illinois.
My dad having a new work schedule doesn't know if he will be able to make it, he is finding out tomorrow if he can come. My mom has already committed to coming, in addition, to bringing along a favorite family dish. It's kind of cute because both of our families are very proud of their food traditions. KJ's mom makes oyster stuffing (which I'm scared to try) and brandy infused sweet potatoes, both recipes coming from his great grandmother. My family makes pirogies and other carb loaded polish dishes. When my mom asked the FMIL what she could bring to dinner she got the typical "just yourself" type of answer - and my mom being the stubborn one she is, insisted she not come empty handed. So between e-mails the moms decided my mom should bring an "Arnett" family dish to be among the traditional Jenison Thanksgiving table. Joining families and meshing traditions... I think it is a very sincere middle ground.
Funny enough, my mom decided on Broccoli Rice casserole, a dish I hate (not a big fan of Cheese Wiz), but a dish I think will go great with the Turkey Day menu. Sometimes mixing families and traditions can be awkward and difficult, especially around the Holidays. This year I'm thankful for both families flexibility, despite the pride and traditions. I think in the end a little flexibility will go a long way in making everyone happy.
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